So my girlfriend...I should do what? Tell her...? Tell her to haul ass???
I prefer: "Suck my dick bitch!"
But somehow I don't think she'd go for it. I'm thinking that maybe she's not comfortable with taking charge. Maybe she doesn't think her skills match up. Maybe you should just ask her (very gently) why she's a corpse. Seriously though... this one is difficult to answer. When I get complacent it's usually because I'm too freaked out to do otherwise (and there are lots of different reasons for this).
A question for you...the ideal way a guy should be in bed? Not talking technique...how should he act and touch and talk and listen?
You just answered your own question. I think a guy should touch
The worst way for any guy to be... is "the jackhammer". I think I've said this before... if not... watch Sex and the City for the perfect clarification. The Jackhammer just hauls in there (whether wet or dry
) and goes to town.
I think the best sex comes from communication. I love it when I can ask a guy what he wants and then he tells me... instead of asking me what I want to give him. Too many guys think they know what they're doing, when in fact, they don't. So I suggest that you ask a girl what she likes and how she likes it... I suggest you be gentle (but that doesn't mean she can't have it rough too)...TANGENT: Gentle Can Be Rough
Gentle roughness can include some spanking, light biting, light hair pulling... etc. The act itself remains gentle because it does not go too far. It does not cross the line between self expression and potential self mutilation. As soon as one feels fear, it no longer feels good. You can spank and get kinky as long as it's all in the context of trust.
Anyhow, good sex is just about being open to the experience and being willing to try new things. One more hint... never bring up what goes on in the bedroom (Call Me Daddy!)... outside of the bedroom... That just causes way too much trouble.
Do you forgive me for ruining your thread?
It was never ruined.
I had a gf who would queef during sex and blame it on me, though.
It probably was your fault though. All that injection action pushes air into the nether-regions and it makes a noise when it finally comes out.